Thursday, January 31, 2013

Parental Guidance

CAST: Billy Crystal, Bette Midler, Marissa Tomei, Tom Everett Scott, Bailee Madison  DIRECTOR: Andy Fickman;  SCREENWRITER:  Lisa Addario, Joe Syracuse;  PRODUCER: Billly Crystal, Peter Chernin, Dylan Clark; EDITOR:  Kent Beyda; MUSICAL DIRECTOR:  Marc Shaiman; GENRE:  Comedy; CINEMATOGRAPHER:  Dean Semler; RUNNING TIME:  105 minutes; DISTRIBUTOR:  20th Century Fox; LOCATION:  USA

Technical assessment: 3
Moral assessment: 3
CINEMA Rating:  PG 13
MTRCB Rating:  G (General Patronage)

Artie Decker (Billy Crystal) was laid off work as a sports announcer—a job he held for the past 20 years. His wife Diane (Bette Midler) keeps fit by pole dancing with her friends at home. While Artie is still shocked and devastated by the sad news and wonders how to tell Diane, they receive a frantic call from their daughter Alice (Marisa Tomei).  She has to leave town with her husband Phil Simmons (Tom Everett Scott) for work (and a getaway), and could they please look after their three children Harper (Bailee Madison), Turner (Joshua Rush) and Barker (Kyle Harrison Breitkopf)? Despite protests from Artie, Diane agrees to babysit their grandchildren while their parents are away.
Determined to reconnect with her grandchildren, Diane is willing to do all she can to make them love her, but Artie is still chasing a dream. Both are not prepared for Alice’s and Phil’s automated lifestyle and 21st century methods of rearing their kids, that is, allowing them to do what they want and never saying no to them or correcting them. Would old school parenting techniques work in the absence of their helicopter parents?
Parental Guidance (previously titled Us & Them) seems to be a parody of present day America and some of the issues that beset family life—despite sophisticated gadgets and technology, parents have less time for themselves or their children, kids are stressed and unable to cope with school or the challenges of growth, older people are left behind by current trends and are not appreciated, the dynamics at work in schools, etc.
Despite the predictable plot, Parental Guidance is fun and enjoyable. The lead actors, especially Billy Crystal and Bette Midler adequately portray their roles. There are many hilarious moments and touching ones, too. It is unfortunate that it had to use some potty humor—could this be for lack of creativity or is it a concession to popular taste?
Grandparents Artie and Diane take care of their three grandchildren using a different approach from what the kids are used to with their parents. Parental Guidance shows that when done to the extreme, both ways can have negative results, hence the need to keep a balance. Despite the differences, what holds the family together is what makes Parental Guidance a good film.  
CINEMA recommends that this be seen by children below 13 with parental guidance.  Even the younger members of the family may be stimulated to comment on the value of the film.